Friday, February 28, 2014

When the Road we are Walking on is Too Steep, Start Paving for a New Path.

When the Road we are Walking on is Too Steep, Start Paving for a New Path.



When the Road we are Walking on is Too Steep, Start Paving for a New Path




We all have wishes in our life but the most part of our dreams is beyond our ability to achieve those.

They may not within our reach but we must never give up and should just do anything to achieve them.

Of course there must be some difficulty for us, so we have to make the effort and get it done.

For this we cannot just sit still,  must be doing a lot of action to overcome those difficulties.

If we want to make it more comfortable to us, but in the same time, need
to ensure that we can achieve it, the easiest things to do is to figure
out first what we all need.

The moment when we got that sorted out , we can start with the practical
actions and develop a methodology that everything can be easily
accessible.

Make this our own way to get things done faster and more comfortable with the same result.

Why bother to make it difficult when we can do it easily?

Now we forgot that if things are difficult for us in the beginning but
we able to make it more easier later on, we will be happy and satisfied
with it as the end result.

Sometimes it takes some effort and time to get the energy savings and many benefits after when something is quickly done.

Always try to come out with a system which have a better scope and
faster functionality in a user friendly method to get an excellent
effect.

So our new strategy is fully developed into an outstanding invention
where everyone understands the usefulness and intention of it.



I wish you a healthy life.

Kindly Regards,

Author Jan Jansen





Thursday, February 27, 2014

Success will be Multiplied when We can Divide the Tasks with Teamwork.

Success will be Multiplied when We can Divide the Tasks with Teamwork.



Success will be Multiplied when We can Divide the Tasks with Teamwork




It is not a secret for all of us that we are strong together and united unbeatable.

Therefore, associations, clubs and networks have a prolonged existence,
because everyone have their own accomplishment where they can perform
well or as one of the best with the experience and complete knowledge.

Putting together the perfect team is the hardest thing, everyone should
combine well together with the right skills and proficiency to be
successful.

The assignment distribution is very important so that everyone know what to do together in a good atmosphere.

So that anything can be monitored and streamlined everything together to make a successful acquisition for the final concept.

If a team is well organized and everyone has been making the effort
together with no errors,success can be multiplied by individual
abilities.

This can multiply the power, because the capacity is increased by each
one on the right place where he or she is assigned to be the best.

Thus, the ability of each task are well distributed and can be reproduced.

Anything will be done with full potency and attention by experienced individuals with their excellent knowledge.

If everything is well prepared and everyone is aligned, we can parallel
our work or effort with a conveyor belt, so it will be no problem to
increase the speed for getting more capacity because of the teamwork.

Good examples are sports teams where an individual would not have any
chance,  but with the cooperation from his teammates to shared the
knowledge, they can achieved the best performance together.

“Individually we are just one drop, but together we can make an ocean”

Each of us have our own capability, so together we can make great things.

When everyone have their own endowment, success can be celebrated as a successful winning team.



I wish you a healthy life.

Kindly Regards,

Author Jan Jansen

Wednesday, February 26, 2014

Every Beginner can be an Expert.

Every Beginner can be an Expert.



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Every Beginner can be an Expert




There are countless opportunities in the mind of every beginner.

We just need to have the feeling and paying our entire attention over certain area which is needed to become an expert.

When our mind is fresh and empty as a beginner, we are ready for anything.

Every expert were once only a beginner, so have confidence in ourselves and do not be afraid to start something new.

To become an expert, we no need to have a natural born talent, but we
must be prepared to learn to be the master of that certain topic.

It is just a matter of time for us to know everything about it so we can possess the required knowledge to be an expert.

We can become the professional expert who know about that particular
topic when we involved ourselves in the conversation which discuss about
the similar subject.

Only the one who are expert in that particular topic can contribute
their professional advice with appropriate response to the related
queries.

The core idea is we should just concentrate on one particular topic/area
and then learn all from it to be the best in that field.

Thus we can define ourselves as an expert with the experience we have,
so when there is a demand, we will be always ready for it.

We can advertise our knowledge thus will generate a good daily income,
and by that time, our learning circle and effort are being well paid
off.

All the experiences that we gain with working will further expand our
expertise to a master level which in the same time also increases the
possibilities for us.

The person who is not willing to learn will never acquire the status of an expert.

We should not wait for the happiness, it is better to chase and accommodate it.

I wish you a healthy life.

Kindly Regards,

Author Jan Jansen

Tuesday, February 25, 2014

Time will Reveal the Real Character of a Person.

Time will Reveal the Real Character of a Person.



Time will Reveal the Real Character of a Person




In life, everyone are equal and should also get the chance to show that.

We may judge directly from the first impression but that can be a big mistake sometimes.

A criminal or honest appearance has nothing to do with the inner of a person.

And it is impossible to determine a real character from the outlook of
any human, because if we do so, we are very short-sighted.

The appearance of a person may scare us but there is a possibility that
their character is going to fascinate us and better than our
expectation.

Many of us look at the appearance and body to see if that meets our
requirements, but remember that as the years pass, all of those will be
deteriorated and weaken.

But the inner nature of human will not change, it can only get better when time and love prevails.

Set a good example by being politeness with good care and a helping hand, then the true friends for us will reveal in no time.

Our intuition is quick enough to let us know who we are dealing with,
because we do not need to be an engineer to understand that.

Give everyone a chance so their character will paid the price in time and their acting will revolve into real purpose of life.

Everyone will have a certain time frame to show their true identity, everything is just a matter of time and patience.

So give others the time and to have the patience for ourselves so they
can finally exposed their true character to us, then we will know
whether they have a good or bad personality.



I wish you a healthy life.

Kindly Regards,

Author Jan Jansen


Monday, February 24, 2014

Avoid making an Emotional Decision because it can be a Misguided Reaction Instead of giving the Good Judgement

Avoid making an Emotional Decision because it can be a Misguided Reaction Instead of giving the Good Judgement



Avoid making an Emotional Decision because it can be a Misguided Reaction Instead of giving the Good Judgement




It happens to all of us that our heart
beats twice as fast, not because our eyes see something excited but also
can be frustrated for us on that moment.

When both our eyes see and ears that heard something, we may become
emotionally frustrated that our blood flows quickly and face turns red,
at that time, it is not easy for us to control the large tensity we have
in ourselves.

To control our own emotion is the most important thing to do at that
moment, because every unwise decision can be causing an adverse
consequence for us.

Our feeling are important but when we are not in the conscious thought
anymore then it is not advisable to make any life-changing decision
because it will only give us the negative effect.

That moment when we are being too sentimental, our whole life may be
jeopardized by an emotional decision which can immediately turn into an
unimaginable tragedy with a serious damage of our lifetime.

Both our psychologically and freedom could experience a change that we have no other optimal option to find the peace again.

There may be some unpredictable confrontation take place that we only will see it in the movies and feeling scared about it.

So always try to recover quickly from an emotional shock and be
thoughtful so we will gave a reasonable reaction in that situation.

Be sober and be reasonable during the conflict so we can have a good
judgment without any getting any setback from our enemy, and the
situation will not turn into a scuffle.

We always see disagreements and emotional setback in our life but it is sensible to walk away from this.

Continue our own life, don’t lose time and attention to those rioters who have no respect for each other.

So that when the same things can be avoided, we will find the happiness and respect for each other.

Never let our emotions to trump over the intelligence that we have in ourselves.



I wish you a healthy life.

Kindly Regards,

Author Jan Jansen


Sunday, February 23, 2014

Ignore a Thousand Reasons to Quit, as we only Need One Reason to be Motivated.

Ignore a Thousand Reasons to Quit, as we only Need One Reason to be Motivated.



Ignore a Thousand Reasons to Quit, we only Need One Reason to be Motivated




In life there is good and bad times, sometimes is good for anything and at some other time, everything gone bad.

If we have a goal which we began with a feeling, but then give it up like nothing is a cowardly act.

That will not do any good to our self-respect and if we stand before the
mirror, to look into the eyes of a loser then the tears may roll down
from our cheeks.

There can always be some unexpected things happen that we have no other
choice and the tears already rolling before we look into the mirror.

But if we have choices we must be strong to look first for solutions by
ourselves in order to be inspired and stay positive to continue for a
better future.

Giving up is the last option we should be thinking about and we must
realize immediately why and how excited by the time we started it.

So think of something directly to find a reason to encourage us to hold
responsibility in these situations and be encouraging with stimulation,
that will generates new energy for us.

Every pain we endure is nothing compared to what it feels like to quit
on something, so follow what our heart tells us from the beginning,
never just simply give up something.

Clarify ourselves what is the reason behind and whether it is wise to
continue doing that or to stop and so losing the opportunities to a
better future.

We should still have a good argument to make such a decision,  even everybody is in their bad day or mood, we all are irritable.

So at that time, it is better to get a clear mind first before we start
making stupid and hasty decisions without any explanation or good
reason.

Let us not believe individuals and don’t let them discourage us by
negative external poor judgment which will have influences on our mood
that we later get regret from our quick decision.

Always empower our minds with certainty, never doubt with every decisions of life for our future interests.

Always look for one reason that will not let us quit immediately but
give us the motivation energy to continue with a good cheer.



I wish you a healthy life.

Kindly Regards,

Author Jan Jansen

Never Stop to Try something New, because Not Everyone can be Successful in their First Attempt.

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Never Stop to Try something New, because Not Everyone can be Successful in their First Attempt.

Never Stop to Try something New, because Not Everyone can be Successful in their First Attempt.



Never Stop to Try something New, because Not Everyone can be Successful in their First Attempt




Life is not just sitting quietly on a chair and watch what is happen around us.

If we think so easily about it, our daily life will be monotonous and eventually we will achieve nothing.

It is better to see life as a challenge, so to find out how much we can accomplish it in a given time.

Discover new things to gain knowledge is important, because when we are
confronted with problems, the solution is already in our mind with the
experience we have.

The beginning is always based on hope, the probability to succeed is big but its never can be guaranteed.

It is recommended to have knowledge prior we want to embark on
something, so we won’t be encountered with too many surprises and know
what we are doing.

Business intelligence is very important and it may helps sometime, but that also will not guarantees anything.

Even we did it wrong in the first time, we should not lose heart and
learn from the experience, keep trying again to achieved success.

Usually, it is not always directly right from the start, but if we have
confidence in it and keep our words with good services, all is coming
well for us through word of mouth.

When we see that we have made a mistake and can not achieve the desired
results don’t be stubborn, but give another idea a chance.

Sit on hatching eggs that do not hatch at the normal time frame is not wise, so just let our intuition to determine that.

Take the most important decision and “turn the rudder” for another
successful formula, so the chance of losing everything does not exist.

That insight ability is different for everyone but we all must be considered heavily to avoid a failure completely.

There are many roads which can lead to Rome, so to reach a successful destination via an alternative route is also good.

Never be afraid or hesitant to keep trying if our first idea does not
work , some new change from the first attempt can save us from a
continuous failure.



I wish you a healthy life.

Kindly Regards,

Author Jan Jansen

Friday, February 21, 2014

Every Great Discovery Start from a Daring Character.

Every Great Discovery Start from a Daring Character.



Every Great Discovery Start from a Daring Character




If we have ideas but didn’t do anything with it, just carried it away in our mind, we will never meet the real discovery.

Only those who have the guts to start the journey of their own idea can
know afterwards what the explorer can be perceived in their voyage.

Someone who is ambitious and have a character with faith in their idea,
then there is nothing can stop them to get what they want.

They just start to discover whether their idea in mind can be achieved
the same as in reality and would like to realize it in real.

There will be a lot of works to do, that’s important but not a problem
for them to achieve it, because their thoughts are constantly working on
the target.

That’s the only thing which will counts for them to reveal whether it is
feasible to use this in the normal life and so to help both themselves
and others with the disclosure of ideas.

This would be able to pass the wealth of history and a new revelation,
the proclamation of something new that is going to help for the
humanity.

Small thoughts on an idea can also become a global understanding where millions of people will benefit from it.

And each one can come up with own idea but many don’t have enough confidence to present it to the outside world.

Those who dared to start their idea can grow into a great discoverer of
something and spreading it into the world, this can make them famous as a
great inventor.



I wish you a healthy life.

Kindly Regards,

Author Jan Jansen


Thursday, February 20, 2014

No One can give Us the True Meaning of Life, so We have to Define it Ourselves.

No One can give Us the True Meaning of Life, so We have to Define it Ourselves.



No One can give Us the True Meaning of Life, so We have to Define it Ourselves




Listening to others on how should we live is easy and for sure almost everyone will be able to tell us about that.

What is the best way, and how should we organize to get the most out of
our day, everyone can tell us endless stories about this, but let’s be
modest.

It’s actually all very simple, because the only way to find happiness
and to have a good feeling is when we can do what ourselves feel good.

It can be fun to follow others at the pool as we stand in line to go down from the slide.

But in everyday life we can monitor and improve our lifestyle with good
behavior and thus discover the meaning of life for ourselves.

Life is a great game to survive with so many options and rules, and each has its own meaning to live for.

Everyone have different ideas and things, one like the sun, the other
who enjoy the cold, and so on but we all feeling united with it.

Every grain of sand on the beach is different and so with the people,
everyone have their own needs and desires to make themselves happy.

And if we ourselves can not find that in it, someone else will certainly
not be able to explain it to us, because they can only talk about the
topics which they are interested.

They can not look into our heart, or read our mind where we are being
fascinated, we will only be able to tell this to ourselves and confirm
it.

Discover the meaning of life itself, because others can only be a little
impact or an example for us, but we should not let ourselves be
influenced or instruct by them to do things which will make us unhappy.



I wish you a healthy life.

Kindly Regards,

Author Jan Jansen

Wednesday, February 19, 2014

Do Not let the Pain to Weaken Us, Instead let it Make Us to Become Stronger.

Do Not let the Pain to Weaken Us, Instead let it Make Us to Become Stronger.



Do Not let the Pain to Weaken Us, Instead let it Make Us to Become Stronger




Sometimes we are facing with a setback or a humiliation in our life and that can give us a great inner pain.

At such moment, we actually dropping the soil under our feet and the pain became unbearable thus our life are becoming hopeless.

Why we should let ourselves so hurt and down with the problems about
things that have already happened? Even so we probably can do nothing to
change this.

Because things done is done, so let it be a good lesson for us, and of
course we can not just take away our emotion and we have to be stronger
with it.

This will be not easy in some cases so we should consider the reality
whether there are possibilities for change as we are being stuck in the
situation at that time.

Life do not stop and has no pause button, that may sounds harsh but it is the true essence of life.

When we are very upset both mentally and emotionally, we can no longer
follow the order of the day and that can be giving a huge impart for our
existence.

If several people are involved in this drama, it is better to jointly seek solutions to return the peace of mind for everybody.

And if necessary give each other comfort and strength to reach for an agreement to finish it with a powerful solution.

Let us not be weakened by the pain so we all will be stronger and stand more powerful  together in life.



I wish you a healthy life.

Kindly Regards,

Author Jan Jansen

Tuesday, February 18, 2014

Health is the Real Wealth for Us.

Health is the Real Wealth for Us.



Health is the Real Wealth for Us

Many people do not realize how important our health is and they only know wealth above all.

They may have forgotten the
fact that health is not for sale, and yet it is so important that we all
still need to know it as an individual thinking person.

We can give priority for other
things but once somethings went out of control and affected our health,
we only will aware that we are doing the wrong things.

Some unfortunate persons were born with health problems and those
are the people who really know how to appreciate better what is the
real meaning of being healthy on their older age.

Almost everything we do in our life depends on our health level in order to perform well.

An unhealthy body cannot simply fabricate much energy than
someone who is healthy and can produce a better effect on the
implication of expanding it.

The moment when we are feeling unwell,
we will know that it is almost impossible for everything to be
functioning well , so it is such a pity for us to be in the wrong timing
for doing what we need to do.

If we are physically and
mentally in control with all of our functioning limbs then we can
confidently speak with a big mouth to say that the wealthy are with us.

Many will think differently, but the moment we have to experienced it, the reality can be changed in our mind due to of an 
uncertainty of our health condition.

We always have to remember to not give up a happy sense of hope in every circumstance to live positively.

Everyone need to realize and understand that the wealth of health is the
most important factor in our life in order to meet our necessities.

Being healthy will further lavish our existence on this planet.



I wish you a healthy life.

Kindly Regards,

Author Jan Jansen


Monday, February 17, 2014

The Greatest Wisdom is to Realize that we do Not Know Everything.

The Greatest Wisdom is to Realize that we do Not Know Everything.



The Greatest Wisdom is to Realize that we do Not Know Everything




There are people in our society who think
they know everything and also behave like this toward others, but that
is a joke and simply ridiculous.

Everyone is limited in their own knowledge but it can be expanded, because we are never too old to learn something.

The whole life is a learning process that will never stop, because there
is always new things for us to improve on our techniques.

So we will never stop learning, while we take our journey through the
impossible through highs and lows, it is not possible for us to know
everything.

Always try to learn something new for each day because knowledge is limitless and very important for us.

Studious people are often more creative and have some good ideas that can be used to give advice to help for others when needed.

To know everything better is simply not possible in society because
there are too many knowledge with different subjects to remember.

There are some people who know everything about a certain subject, but
that is also limited thus they will also have to learn on every new
changes again and again.

Learning is a part of our life as our limbs, we will never be able to function properly if we refuse to learn.

Nobody is stupid because everyone can learn for a particular topic of
their respective interests, and know to go for the other direction on
how things should be done, that’s the reality.

Life is one big learning process without end.

When we realize that we all need each other to gain and sharing
experiences for the best knowledge, together we will have the
opportunity to be wise.

Because the greatest wisdom is knowing that we will not know everything and can always learn from each other.



I wish you a healthy life.

Kindly Regards,

Author Jan Jansen

Sunday, February 16, 2014

Een Zeiler Zonder Bestemming zal Zeker de Verkeerde Wind in de Zeilen Krijgen.

Een Zeiler Zonder Bestemming zal Zeker de Verkeerde Wind in de Zeilen Krijgen.



Een Zeiler Zonder Bestemming zal Zeker de Verkeerde Wind in de Zeilen Krijgen




Iemand die geen visie heeft voor zijn leven zal niet gemakkelijk iets bereiken op een probleemloze manier.

Zal een volger zijn van anderen en zoals we bijna allemaal al hebben
ervaren leid dat niet tot onze eigen verlangens maar tot die van
anderen.

Sommigen kunnen daar vrede mee hebben en zijn blij om anderen te dienen
als dat hun gelukkig maakt, willen een simpel leven en niet teveel
zorgen.

Een persoon die zelf verantwoordelijkheid wil nemen en zo zijn plaats in
de maatschappij wil verbeteren moeten weten wat ze willen.

Zonder een grote visie, zal ons leven altijd in de verkeerde richting gaan en misschien nergens toe leiden.

Om te weten wat we willen zal er een plan gemaakt moeten worden wat goed georganiseerd is van A tot Z met alle voor en nadelen.

Weten waar te beginnen en ook de eindbestemming al in gedachten hebben
en die uitwerken op papier in een bestemmingsplan met alle belangrijke
punten.

Zomaar iets doen en vertrekken zonder een reisdoel of eind adres zal om
het eindpunt te bereiken afhankelijk zijn van de omstandigheden en de
wind in de zeilen dit kan een mooi avontuur worden maar geeft geen
zekerheden en kan gevaarlijk zijn.

Het zal iets worden zonder een doelgerichte planning en kan leiden tot
iets uitstekend maar ook tot individuele rampzalige gebeurtenissen waar
anderen ook de dupe van kunnen worden.

Dat is het nemen van een groot risico met veel
verantwoordelijkheidsgevoel voor iets wat allemaal voorkomen kan worden
door een goed opgezette en georganiseerde planning voor ons leven.

Weten wat we willen in ons leven kan veel gecompliceerde momenten
reduceren tot bijna niets, omdat we van te voren alle oplossingen al
overwogen hebben in een plan.

Dat geeft zoveel meer rust in plaats van frustraties als er iets
verkeerds gaat en we geen alternatief hebben om het te verhelpen.

Weet altijd aan welk reisdoel we beginnen in ons leven en heb een
bestemmingsplan met een eindpunt, zodat we weten wat te doen bij
onverwachte wind in de zeilen.



Het allerbeste toegewenst en een goede gezondheid.

Auteur Jan Jansen

A Sailor Without Destination is Definitely Follow the Wrong Wind in the Sails.

A Sailor Without Destination is Definitely Follow the Wrong Wind in the Sails.



A Sailor Without Destination is Definitely Follow the Wrong Wind in the Sails




Someone who has no vision in their life will not be able to achieve something easily  in a hassle free way.

Will be a follower of others, and as we all have experienced it already
in our life, that will not lead to our own desire, but only accomplish
the desires of others.

Some may be at peace with it and happy to serve others if that makes
them happy, because they only want a simple life and not to worry too
much.

A person who wants to take the responsibility and to improve his place in society should know what they want.

Without a great vision, our life will always go to the wrong direction and lead to nowhere.

To know what we want, we will need a well organized plan from A to Z with all the pros and cons.

Knowing where to start and also have the final destination in mind, so
we can work it out on paper in a zoning plan with all the important
points.

To start something new in our life or leave without a destination
address and want to reach the end point will then always depend on the
wind conditions in the sails, this  maybe a great adventure, but it give
no guarantees and can be dangerous.

Something without a purposeful planning can never lead to the great
things, and also can have resulted in catastrophic events for individual
but others may also be the victim of it.

That’s taking a big risk with a lot of responsibility for something
which can be prevented with a well and organized plan for our life.

Knowing what we want in our life can reduce many complicated moments to
almost zero, because we have already considered in advance for all the
solutions in a plan.

This gives much more rest instead of frustration and when something happen, we have an alternative to fix it.

Always know to what destination we are heading from the start of our
life and have a excellent plan with an endpoint, so we know what to do
with the unexpected wind in the sails.



I wish you a healthy life.

Kindly Regards,

Author Jan Jansen

Saturday, February 15, 2014

Never let the Success to Rise Above our Head.

Never let the Success to Rise Above our Head.



Never let the Success to Rise Above our Head




Everybody want to be successful in their life, by achieving it they can celebrate with joy and an excellent feeling.

To be success is usually associated with money and increase in income,
some may think that the content of life is to have as much capital as
possible.

And then there is a change, because they think their status is being
elevated through wealth and not by the intelligence for success.

Stay modest when success is achieved, because everyone will see that and is not easy to efface it away.

Let us not get carried away by the wealth of success, but enjoy it and stay humble.

We cannot spend more money than there is, by the moment we think that
success is permanent, we will try to get loans to buy something that are
not guaranteed for our earnings.

We should not show ourselves is bigger than the really.

Then it will goes the wrong way and we are no longer living for
ourselves but for the eyes of others so as a result there is no turning
back.

By that time, our finances status do not allow us to clear all the debts, then we only realize that we make a big mistake.

It is better not to be running out off our shoes, but keep our feet firmly stand on the ground.

It is always better to live below our standard and to build up with
financial reserves, so it can be easily solved our problems whenever we
have them.

With this, we are also more likely to be accepted in the society and can have a better overview of how others behave.

Always keep in our mind that success can be temporary, and try to live
healthy, because it is not  necessary to change ourselves to impress
others.



I wish you a healthy life.

Kindly Regards,

Author Jan Jansen

Friday, February 14, 2014

Life is Just very Simple, do Not Insist to make it Complicated.

Life is Just very Simple, do Not Insist to make it Complicated.



Life is Just very Simple, do Not Insist to make it Complicated




We all can be very complex or just very simple in our life, it’s all depends on what our needs and how we think about it.

Always try to realize what’s important in our life, so we can leave out
what we do not need, then we will not get lost in direction.

If we focus on too many things then do not really know which direction
to go and this will limit our concentration on what is more important
for us.

When we are able to continue and focus on our goals with actions
directly, not just sit down and keep thinking of it in our mind then we
are starting to make our life more easier so we can accomplish anything.

Plan things first in our mind are the initial steps to make everything more easier and we can improve on it.

Why need to think it hard as it can be organized easily in order to carry everything out within a prerequisite clause.

We often make it difficult for ourselves, because we have a lot of demands and trying to regulate it to perfection.

That is a very good starting point to start something but perfection
will make it all more complicated, because nothing is perfect in the
mind of a human that want to have everything to be even more better.

Therefore it is better to organized first and set up something to
improve on it step by step, even only a few things can be outstanding
directly from start to the extreme.

Don’t make it too hard for ourselves and knows what we want, so that
from there we can arrange something with more focus to achieve for our
targeted results.

As a result, our life become simple and we can engage ourselves with complicated things.



I wish you a healthy life.

Kindly Regards,

Author Jan Jansen

Thursday, February 13, 2014

Love is like a River that will Continue to Flow Forever.

Love is like a River that will Continue to Flow Forever.



Love is like a River that will Continue to Flow Forever




To be the valentine for a person on this
special day in the year give a good feeling and also indicates that
there is love involved.

Love is an essential factor which occupy an important place in our life
and can give us the extra feeling that everyone is waiting to be happy.

It can make or break us, because love can provide the best moments to us but also give us painful with tears of sadness.

Everyone wants to be in love and those who appreciate it will be able to
enjoy forever, because a love life have norms and values that can be
associated with respect.

And if we want to maintain the flow of love without stop, we must be
able to trust  and always take care of each other so that our hearts is
fully filled with love.

Will encounter the infinite desire for each other when we’re apart, because out of sight is not out of the heart.

The craving for each other should give us a warm feeling of desire where
our hearts can be touched by only one person, that is love and wish for
each other.

Together with the person we love give us a good feeling which can improve our mood with a very warm feeling to smile.

To be with that person constantly play a role in our mind, we will take
them into account before making any decision, because we want to see the
joy in their eyes every time.

Our heart beats faster when the person we love is in our neighborhood or
when we only heard the name then we can quietly start to think this is
my Valentine on today.

Now we just need to make sure that the love sparks continue to flow like
the blood in our veins forever until our last day together with our
Valentine.

Love has no limit and we can not control the feelings from our heart, so let it continue to flow together forever.



I wish you a healthy life.

Kindly Regards,

Author Jan Jansen

Wednesday, February 12, 2014

Do Not Let our Inner Peace being Disturbed by Things Which is Beyond our Control.

Do Not Let our Inner Peace being Disturbed by Things Which is Beyond our Control.



Do Not Let our Inner Peace being Disturbed by Things Which is Beyond our Control




Many things happen in our life which we have no influence on it, but that can irritate our inner feelings.

We are totally disagree with it and would like to change that or try to at least bring in some improvements.

But we are totally not in forces to address them, as a result we only
disturb our inner peace with something that is impossible to correct.

So basically we are bringing water to the sea, because we will never be able to realize it or find a solution.

We have completely no control over what happened there, maybe only in a
dream we would be able to meet for a settlement and see it in our mind
but this is not possible in real life.

So that’s no loophole to ourselves to lift the burden from others and
take over their decisions, for things that we can never let it end.

These are the life-saving resourses that we’ll never be able to hand
over it, we only can make a decision about it in our mind, but that will
never give us a decisive outcome.

It is the best to never come into a situation to get a surprise or try
to interfere in something which we never can obtain for an agreement or
outcome.

Keep Calm and be inconsiderate, because when we are upset it will only disturb our own inner mood.

After a bad inner feeling, our appearance will give an acting reflection of our inner spirit.

This is a determination by others that the decision on the choice is a
lost of proper control over something which we will never have a
solution for it.

The illation of the conclusion from others is that we better make an
immediate assessment of the situation and if we have no control over it,
it is better not to take action, because that will only give harm to
ourselves.

Our inner peace is very important in life so do not let it interfere by a syncope.



I wish you a healthy life.

Kindly Regards,

Author Jan Jansen


Tuesday, February 11, 2014

Never Waste our Effort on those who Not Appreciate Us.

Never Waste our Effort on those who Not Appreciate Us.



Never Waste our Effort on those who Not Appreciate Us




Respect is something that we have
received from our upbringing and at a later age we learning more to be
ourselves so we can assessing the value and understand that not
everything is for sale.

Time is precious and it is not possible for us to spend all the time to
care and to  resolve the problems for everybody around us.

Because our time is often too limited and we own also have several
problems in private or work and we need full attention for caring of our
family.

But whoever does good will encounter with a better person, so be kind to
each other and give a helping hand is very important in our life.

Unfortunately, there are also many people who abuse it and do not
appreciate the efforts and they only want to get more benefits.

If someone has handed us a helping hand without asking anything in
return, those are the people that we really should appreciate them.

This goes the same true for us, for those who never cherish what we do
for them, it will be unwise to spend more of our efforts on them.

Every hour only can be consumed once and it will never come back, so spent our time wisely and well.

It is better to pay attention to those who appreciate our time and
effort and who really need to be helped, thereby they will have awe for
us.

They appreciate and admire us as we do something for them, and we will
have a reverent feeling after, because we have done something good
without wanting to get a advantage out of it.

Be Always willing to help others and keep doing that, it is better if we
try putting ourselves in others shoes, give them the chance when there
is a possibility.

When they mess with that opportunity by not being honest or not to
appreciate, it is better to spend our effort and cash on our immediate
beloved or others who will respects and admired us.

Make the effort to someone who does not value this is the same as
stealing from a blind man who cannot see what is being stolen from him.



I wish you a healthy life.

Kindly Regards,

Author Jan Jansen


Monday, February 10, 2014

Be Careful with the Words we Use Because Once its Spoken, can Never be Recalled.

Be Careful with the Words we Use Because Once its Spoken, can Never be Recalled.



Be Careful with the Words we Use Because Once its Spoken, can Never be Recalled




Fortunately, all of us can determine our attitude and how we behave, but …….

We all have the freedom to speak anything but we have to think first
before the spoken word came out from our mouth, and against who we need
to talk to.

Wrong words can hurt others and as a result will going to affect their feelings thereby create hatred among people.

And it is not possible for everyone to remember all their words they’ve
spoken before which causing confusion and frustrations to others.

During our bad mood, we can sometimes lose control and possibly the
wrong words quickly come out of our mouth without thinking first.

But that can sometimes have different consequences than we think and
will give harm for the relationship, because nobody like to hear
disrespectful words from their ears.

Every word we used are very important, so it is easy for us to join into
a conversation with the right words and great vocabulary.

That we can correct it by using the right words in a runaway
communication so we can take over the conversation without using
aggressive words.

A good conversation is when the process are hassle-free and nobody will
be attacked deliberately with gripping language or humiliating words.

The joyful conversation with laughter will give a pleasant feeling to everyone for a better relationship.

Always be careful with the words we use so that we will not continue to embarrass anyone.

And when the damage is done by our words, it will be too late for us to recover from it even with a sincere apologize.



I wish you a healthy life.

Kindly Regards,

Author Jan Jansen

Sunday, February 9, 2014

The Biggest Mistake a Person can Ever Make is to Simply Give Up.

The Biggest Mistake a Person can Ever Make is to Simply Give Up.



The Biggest Mistake a Person can Ever Make is to Simply Give Up




We all meet with surprises and setbacks in our life, there will not be any exception to nobody.

The main concern is what kind of impact this will give on us, with not
too much damage on our peace of mind and how we can handle it.

Sometimes it can be very significant if we experience something that
affects our emotional feelings in which will be difficult for us to
suppress it and we don’t want to give it the free rein.

Materialistic problems are easier to accept but it is an entirely different handling process without such a profound feelings.

Family matters where love is involved may also end up in tragic consequences for some cases.

Mostly because they are not talking to each other so no longer have
control over the handling process, and in a few seconds their mind
cannot think clearly so they only response with emotions.

With emotional, we should always look for an excuse for ourselves not
involve to do stupid things, because we not only ruin our own life but
also to many people who have given their hearts and love for keeping
with us.

In a downturn, we should just be careful and think ten times before we
let our emotions dominate us and make the biggest mistake of our life

Never do something which is unrecoverable for ourselves or others,
because then a regret will no more have effect for our actions and this
can give an aftermath in our mind and to others in the whole life.

Never give up on anything and surpassing of ourselves to be better, so
we can be a winner of our mind, because a quitter can never win, and a
winner never quits.

Emotional feelings can be painful because if we do something back, we
can also give others the same pain and sadness by our quick reacting
actions, so a stupid result will be there for us.

Be the winner of our life, never give up but to improve it.



I wish you a healthy life.

Kindly Regards,

Author Jan Jansen

Saturday, February 8, 2014

Familie is een Plek waar het Leven Begint met een Nooit Eindigende Liefde.


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Familie is een Plek waar het Leven Begint met een Nooit Eindigende Liefde Wijzelf zijn geboren in de aanwezigheid van onze ouders en dat zijn onze trouwste familieleden en vrienden. Vanaf die eerste dag zijn zij het die ons met een hechte band de meeste liefde hebben gegeven in het leven. Er kunnen ook directe of indirecte familieleden zijn waarmee wij ook een zeer goede relatie mee kunnen opbouwen en misschien bloedverwanten of aangetrouwde familieleden. Maar die worden in ieder geval als familielid toegevoegd en geaccepteerd door liefde. Bloed verwante familieleden kunnen we niet zelf kiezen en de zorgzame en liefdevolle bezorgdheid van onze familie voor elkaar is eeuwigdurend, niemand in de wereld kan deze gevoelens vervangen voor ons. Familie is ook de meest veiligste plek voor ons op deze aarde, wanneer we te kampen hebben met problemen in ons leven, tegen de tijd dat we ons huis of die van familieleden bereiken, voelen we ons veilig op eigen bodem. Iedereen verlangt naar geborgenheid en veiligheid onze familie is een liefde die nooit eindigt wat er ook gebeurd er zal altijd een verband blijven goed of slecht maar uit onze gedachte zullen ze nooit verdwijnen. Het is eigenlijk moeilijk te beschrijven maar het is als ijzer voor een magneet, familieleden blijven altijd naar elkaar aangetrokken worden met liefde en begrip. Sta samen sterk in het leven en blijf familie de eindeloze liefde geven. Het allerbeste toegewenst en een goede gezondheid. Auteur Jan Jansen http://ift.tt/1iJt8Ub Lees Meer Gedichten……. #gedichten #poetry #gedicht #verhaal #verhalen #poëzie #easybranches #janjansen