Providing from Ourselves to Others can Sometimes Cost a High Toll.
In our lives, we all need a wheelbarrow to move a huge pile of sand easily, because without the help everything will go slower.
Get a helping hand or disclosed handed can sometimes be very helpful
especially if there is not enough knowledge and it will encourage all to
a faster process.
Occasionally we are so impulsive to assist someone with help, that we
ourselves completely forgotten by the enthusiasm and we also work or
have important things to do, the clock is ticking and we are sometimes
tied to deadlines or appointments.
Sometimes to help others we walk ourselves over, it’s good to help
others, but we must also realize that we ourselves are also important
and remember to show clear boundaries there.
Someone who is strongly needy or in distress, then it is fine to give
their spontaneous backing and thus help them out to achieve a state of
emergency.
Then we are glad that we helped someone who needed us at that time and hence has come out of the problems.
At a time when we ourselves are in trouble, we hope someone to help us
and perhaps there to ask, but with good friends its not necessary to see
it.
It may also be that if we helped someone at that time, they will express
their overly nice and gratitude but later everything quickly returned
to normal or forgotten.
It is better not to annoy our own there and see it as a part of life, as
the candle fire is on everyone can enjoy the light and romance.
Some are not as intelligent and blow out the candle themselves, this
causing a freedom to others and they can make a choice to let shine the
light again or leave the other in the dark.
For the most part we ourselves can determine our happiness and
contentment when we think deeply about experienced confrontations and
for what purpose and mood that arose.
To help another is not bad but thinking primarily about ourselves is the
effort to overcome the feeling and satisfaction and triumph to another.
If we are willing to pay a high price does not matter to whom we
providing our own, because in our hearts, the sun will always shine and
the triumph last forever.
Get a helping hand or disclosed handed can sometimes be very helpful
especially if there is not enough knowledge and it will encourage all to
a faster process.
Occasionally we are so impulsive to assist someone with help, that we
ourselves completely forgotten by the enthusiasm and we also work or
have important things to do, the clock is ticking and we are sometimes
tied to deadlines or appointments.
Sometimes to help others we walk ourselves over, it’s good to help
others, but we must also realize that we ourselves are also important
and remember to show clear boundaries there.
Someone who is strongly needy or in distress, then it is fine to give
their spontaneous backing and thus help them out to achieve a state of
emergency.
Then we are glad that we helped someone who needed us at that time and hence has come out of the problems.
At a time when we ourselves are in trouble, we hope someone to help us
and perhaps there to ask, but with good friends its not necessary to see
it.
It may also be that if we helped someone at that time, they will express
their overly nice and gratitude but later everything quickly returned
to normal or forgotten.
It is better not to annoy our own there and see it as a part of life, as
the candle fire is on everyone can enjoy the light and romance.
Some are not as intelligent and blow out the candle themselves, this
causing a freedom to others and they can make a choice to let shine the
light again or leave the other in the dark.
For the most part we ourselves can determine our happiness and
contentment when we think deeply about experienced confrontations and
for what purpose and mood that arose.
To help another is not bad but thinking primarily about ourselves is the
effort to overcome the feeling and satisfaction and triumph to another.
If we are willing to pay a high price does not matter to whom we
providing our own, because in our hearts, the sun will always shine and
the triumph last forever.
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